44x365x209 - Tom

At first, I was afraid of your gruff personality. You heard positive things about me, so you challenged me. I did my job my way, and you complimented me. During my investigation work, I found you were a teddy bear under all that darkness.

44x365x208 - Cindy

I entrusted you with my most prized possession and you brought her a lot of laughs and good times. I still remember her lit up face when you held a "Dress-Up Day." She was laughing so hard and you made her feel so beautiful.

44x365x207 - Sue

You married so young due to entrapment, but I think it made you learn a lot about how you will live out the remainder of your life. I hope you have found real true love now. I wish you a visit from Niecey Nash.

44x365x206 - Stephen

I think you are a real interesting man to talk to. There is a gleam in your eye, and I wonder if what you are telling me is the truth or plain bullshit. Then you give a smile and I am still left wondering.

44x365x205 - Joline

You once hid my M&M machines and left me cryptic notes. It made me laugh to see your creativity because most people saw you as a serious and tough co-worker. We laughed a lot didn't we? Ordered smothered onions and chocolate milk at Roy's.

44x365x204 - Maureen

You have always been positively motivated and I swear you are a life-long cheerleader. I do not think I have ever seen you unhappy. You are a good motivator, which I can really appreciate. Some think you are fake; I think you are real.

44x365x203 - Chris

We became friends on-line at a time in our lives when we were both going through extremely hard times. We leaned on each other; planned to visit, but never ever did. I moved on, but you didn't. I wonder if you feel you failed.

44x365x202 - Debbie

You recently participated in a physically enduring fundraiser to benefit a friend's child. Your hope and determination made me look at you with a huge amount of respect. Debbie, this selfless act made me realize there is so much more to who you are!

44x365x201 - Corey

When you were brought to your family, it was the beginning of many firsts for them. You had an incredible look; I remember that everyone thought you could be a baby model. You had a few public shots done and they were certainly right.

44x365x200 - Dawn

I love you for your independent strength, your lifestlye choice, and those you surround yourself with. You taught me more about my job than anyone else because you saw hope in who I was as a co-worker. Thanks for everything you have given me.

44x365x199 - Julie

Working with you was always fun. You did some ditzy things, but when you would break out in a laugh and say, "Oh well," everyone would laugh as well. I wish you had given birth to children because you would be a great Mom!

44x365x198 - Jackie

The high school girl I fell in love with, but she did not like me in return. I gave you a watch and professed my "like" for you. I got turned down. In later years you forgot this story, but Patti quickly remind you.

44x365x197 - Pam

What a talented lady you are. Making your own paper, the decorated sugar cookies, and your hand-painted eggs. Your fiery red hair matches your fiery hot spirit. Your personality always made me laugh and we know we are connected in some past spiritual way.

44x365x196 - Jackie

When my daughter was ready to go to daycare, you were our first choice and you did not disappoint. We disgreed on some payment issues, but you gave my daughter a loving home and a great environment to be in. I'll always be thankful.

Bowl For Kids Sake 2009

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The Big Brothers Big Sisters Bowl For Kids Sake Event is gearing up! The Elves here are the ones that make this event truly special. The Bowl For Kids Sake 2009 event is being held Saturday, March 28th and Sunday, March 29th at Sparetime Recreation in Lewiston, ME.

So...for my friends in the State of Maine, who live in, near, or will travel to Androscoggin County, you are expected to be at this event to support the great work of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Androscoggin County.

Save the date...March 28th and March 29th!

Here is how you can help:

1. Donate a Flat-Rate Pledge!
2. Be a Team Captain and create teams of family and friends to bowl at the event!
3. Volunteer your time to make the event a success.
4. Spread the word by being a BFKS Representative at your business! Company challenges are great ways to have fun together and help the community!

If you need any information, I am sure one of the elves at Big Brothers Big Sisters can help you! Call Big Brothers Big Sisters today at (207) 782-5437 x76

Help if you can, make a difference in the life of a child!

44x365x195 - Diane

You have the rare gift of speaking to people and making them feel comfortable enough to engage in very personal conversation. You have changed the lives of many children and families in our community. You make the best cheese ball ever with butterfly crackers!

44x365x194 - Sue

You used to keep a list of my spelling errors, and you laughed when I was attacked by a Pitt Bull. Working with you was always fun, and we became good friends. I miss the fun times. Ok, other than the Pit Bull situation!

44x365x193 - Vicky

I met you at a time when I was getting a great amount of criticisim. You ralled to me and we ended up creating an incredible working realtionship. When"Oh Vicky you're so fine, you're so fine you blow my mind, hey Vicky! Hey Vicky!"

44x365x192 - Van

I am so glad I met you because you made fundraising for the kids in our community a lot of fun. It made our whole office laugh with every call. "Van! Van! You're the man, and if Van can't do it, no one can!"

44x365x191 -Karen

When I first met you, I thought you were such an interesting person. As time marched on, I realized that you were "shopping" for a good life. You got it didn't you? But it was not enough, was it? Sad choices that hurt others..

44x365x190 - Mamie

I MISS YOU MOST OF ALL. I miss how you accepted me and defended me without question. I miss our walks, hugs, and your "special candy," and oddly, the smell of your house. There was something special about the love you gave yoru grandchildren.

44x365x189 - Papa

I love you for bringing your grandkids to the office after church got out ... and allowing us to raid the candy machine and play school. We had a lot of fun there. You would bring us for penny candy and we had "our time."

44x365x188- Tom

You grew up in a rocking chair; back and forth. You introduced me to many things because I observed you. Henry Mancini, Carly Simon, Beatles, and more. You always beat me at board games and made me the competitor I am today at "Sorry!"

44x365x187 - Dennis

In many ways you are a kept man, but you enjoy the challenges your life brings. You have so much knowledge and have a super natural gift. I think you will always be happily married because your souls are truly meanto t be together.

44x365x186 - Fredda

I always enjoy our little festive talks. I know it made those around us ill, but we had a great time didn't we? Your support through a terrible time in my life was very appreciated. I still treasure the PEZ your granddaughter gave me.

44x365x185 - Melissa

I love how you add humor to everything that you do. Your special energy lights up a room, and I can see how your students look up to you with hope for a better future. You make your job look easy and fun. Bravo!

44x365x184 - Jane

My fellow "attic dweller" who shared a lot of laughs with me. I watched in awe as you changed your life with each new belt color. It was truly inspiring to see your pride and strength. I am sorry I missed your special birthday.

44x365x183 - Sandy

A creative type of woman who has more talent than she realizes. You married "Elastic Boy" and named your two children after me. I am honored that one of your sons enjoys PEZ. I am still hung on your office door with laughable memories.

44x365x182 - Debbie

Happy Birthday to my OLDER sister. I admire your passions for children and animals. You have a special gift that I do not see in many people. Remember Hand & Foot, Pepsi vs Coke, and when the Saints Go Marching In! Lots of Laughs!

44x365x181 - Marcel

You are a good man because you married my sister. You love her with all your heart and you make me proud. No wonder you were my best man at my wedding. I miss our family times at Pine Point. Come back this year!

44x365x180 - Janice

Your kindness and patience makes me think about my own qualities. You seem so calm and serene in everything you do, which makes it seem effortless. I think you improve the lives of others without really knowing it. You are a very special person.

44x365x179 - Dawna

I can't believe you got me to wear a halloween costume when I never celebrate the holiday. Your sexy voice on the phone brought us a ton of laughter, and the name "Bubbles" lives on after all these years! Dawna, why pick Fred Flintstone?

44x365x178 - Bill

I can remember interviewing for a job and hearing you say, "Ron, I can teach you anything to do with this position, but what I can't teach you is personality. I am hiring you for your personality." Those words still echo in my life.

44x365x177 - Wanda S.G.

You are a person who opened my eyes to "the light." When you did that crystal reading, I was amazed by the conversations and results. I still cherish the crystal that you gave me, and the crystal lights you continue to send to me.

44x365x176 - John

As a child I used to see you for your finest attributes; a masterful mind, good looks, killer personality. As an adult, I see you more as "Where's Waldo?" I often wonder what took a great possibility and turned it into a traveling showman.

44x365x175 - Joanne

My Aunt who was a memory that I discussed at Thanksgiving. You had a difficult life and did the best you could with it. I admired the truthful conversations we had about your life, your job, and your death. You made me understand death.

44x365x174 - Pastor Marion

I think you give a wonderful sermon and you cause me to pause and think. You have strengthened my spirit with God more than you know. I am glad that my daughter was confirmed with you by her side. You are a wonderful Pastor.

44x365x173 - God

I feel your power within me, and I see the lives I must nurture. I wonder what your plan is for me. I have diappointed you, but yet I feel your love. My recent struggles are very hard. I look for your light daily.

44x365x172 - Doreen

You have this cheerleader type personality; always upbeat, happy, and making others feel good. I have always enjoyed seeing you "work a room" and inspiring those around you; no matter what age. You are a wonderfully fun and creative gift. Go Team; RAH! RAH!

44x365x171 - Colin

A young man who is a real super talent. Your creativeness seems easy and flawless. I am glad I got to know you and work with you because I am sure you will go places in your lifetime. I will enjoy watching you succeed.

44x365x170 - Katherine

To the newest member of the family; welcome. You are a real cutie! You remind me of Alexandra in how you act; quiet, somber, and jumpy. You do not just smile at anyone either, it has to be earned. You go girl! Love ya!

44x365x169 - Seth

You call when you need to talk openly to another male. Our chats are so wonderfully deep; filled with emotion and life changing thoughts. I can't believe we talk so honestly together about so many personal topics. You are like a son to me.

44x365x168 - Edward N.

We shared our families when we were neighbors. Funny how we went through our divorces at the same time. As we healed ourselves, we were good friends and supported each other. We have separately moved onward in our lives. Do you miss our talks?

44x365x167 - Joe

My Uncle who made the best pop-overs I have ever had. The family would fight over your home-made baskets at the Christmas auction swap. I think it is unusual that we both worked at the same television station; you retired when I was hired.

44x365x166 - Lizzie

I do not care that you are a lesbian. Your talk on that subject was hysterical, and the You-Tube videos made me laugh so much I had to share them. You were right, why can't people make up their minds? You are my friend.

44x365x165 - Tina

Why can't you be good to me? Prisoner of your love, entangled in your web. You're my private dancer. I was mad that you did not stay at the Sonesta when you were in town. I was finally going to see you in person.

44x365x164 - Michael

At first you applauded my organizational skills, and then you used them against me. You got away with things because you were considered "hot." I do think you are a nice guy, and you seem to have it all, but you are sadly unorganized.

44x365x163 - Lisa

I think you figured out that I am better with a secret than Katie is! :) I find your shyness about your relationships interesting. You will learn to "be real" and begin to ask for what you want. Learn to live with no regrets.

44x365x162 - Oprah

I have always liked you for many reasons. As a baby, my daughter would idolize you; crying during commericals. You always exlemplify how one person can change lives and influence change itself. My favorite saying of yours is: "Love is in the details."

44x365x161 - Hillary

I often wonder what would have happened if you were given the chance to make your personal difference. I think you would have changed a lot of lives, and maybe even Tracy would have liked you, too! I wonder who your REALLY voted for.

44x365x160 - Barack

You won the presidential election and have inspired hope to the hopeless. You have a country hoping that you can make a difference that has not been seen in 8 years. The only thing stnading in your way is your personal acceptance by Tracy.

44x365x159 - Melanie N-B

I enjoyed our working relationship because you have a huge heart for children. When you left your job, you joined my program as a volunteer to make a difference in the lives of children. I am enjoying our friendship. Thank you for being YOU!

44x365x158 - Anne

Long blonde hair, striking eyes, and a shyness that brings you attention. You are in high school and already living beyond your years. Do not hurry to grow up because you will later wish you could back-track your life; and you can't. Loves Pez.

44x365x157 - Jack

To a musically inclined young man. Big hair, mischievous smile, and natural good looks. You have taken control of your life, and maybe life has also taken control of you, too. You have such grand possibilities ahead. Bring your Pez Collection with you, ok?!

44x365x156 - Jaci

We all celebrate your successes today; a college degree. You have grown so much; married with a brand new baby boy. A lot of life's real joys have quickly come to your door. I love to see your wide smile and good personality. Congrats!

44x365x155 - Robby

A cousin I have never really known. You were caught up in an emotional situation that will keep your real family away. Don't you ever want to reach out and ask questions? Emotion and loyalty keeps me silent, but you really should ask questions.

44x365x154 - Lucien

Lou-Babe was the name given to you a long time ago. You inspired me with the love that you and your wife expressed. A cute couple who were deeply in love; a love that made me stop and simply observe. Dancing, talking, laughing, being.

44x365x153 - Jan

I became closer to you when our daughters bonded. I found that despite our age difference, we had a lot in common. You are a great mother and creative with cloth and thread. I learn a lot from our personal chats at the holidays.

44x365x152 - Kevin

You seem like the perfect husband. I love how you possess the ability to be strong and silent. Everyone who meets you likes you immediately. You have a great karam about you, and you are a great match for my cousin. Don't you agree?

44x365x151 - "Dyna-Mike"

A quiet young man who is now part of the family. With a nickname like "Dyna-Mike," I expected you to vibrant and loud and silly. But I found you to be quiet, shy, and smart. You are a strong individual. You are a "Dyna-Mike!"

44x365x150 - Jill

Smiling….you came into the family at a young age, and I have enjoyed seeing you grow up. I love your kind heart that extends itself to everyone you meet. I am proud of how good you are to your little brother and sister.

44x365x149 - William

You have talents I have always admired. You are smooth with the ladies, you have a craftsman's mind and ability, and you are extremely macho. I love your sense of privacy and your love of family. It's not always easy being in your shadow.

44x365x148 - Marion

I always thought you were a nice woman, but felt you had lots of stress in your life. Due to the actions of your husband, I feel that you lost a whole family. I feel sad for you at all our family holiday celebrations.

44x365x147 - Brenda

Smart and popular in school. You love being active; especially skiing. You traveled to Maine for a weekend ski trip. Your Uncle, my Dad, died a few days later. You didn't attend the funeral because of the long trip to Maine. tsk. tsk. tsk.

44x365x146 - Happy Birthday Terry!

I have never known life without you. My second mother. You never had children, but you certainly are a caretaker to everyone around you. You earned success in a man's world. You are an inspiration. You were there for me the night Dad died.

44x365x145 - Hermie

You were my second father and always hilarious. I loved your antics, your humor, everything. I had no idea we would be bonded forever when you passed away on the exact same month and day as my own father did. We are family. Forever.

44x365x144 - Bob

I grew up listening to your negative comments about me. As an adult, I realize that I was one of your many victims. You ceased to be part of my family when you spoke badly of my father at his wake. Pray for forgiveness.

44x365x143 - Mitchell

We share a name together. I grew up with you and we were only close because of my familial duty. I enjoyed more times with you when you were ill than when you were well. I think we missed the best of each other.

44x365x142 - Berta

I still have the dictionary that you gave me for high school graduation. I also still use the bath towel you gave me for college. You have been gone for so long now, but you live in my heart daily. I love you Grammy!

44x365x141 - Jessica

I became an uncle when you were born. I fed you, changed you, and lived with you. We watched Alf together each week, and played race car LOUDLY in the aisles of Zayre's. You will always be my lip lockin' lip lovin' little lova!

44x365x140 - Brian

You are an incredible person, but you do not let anyone in. When you marry into a family, you should treat your new family members like your own family. You are missing so much by not sharing yourself with all of us. Join us!

44x365x139 - Rosie

When we first met when I was interviewing for a job. We discussed a mutual friend and we began to speak like old friends. Four years later, we have a friendship that I hope to have for years to come. I love your humor.

44x365x138 - Kelly

You have a friendly and bubbly personality, but I think you are intimidated by those around you. I wish you would learn from these great people instead of finding fault. Life is more than you think, but you will learn when you become "real."

44x365x137 - Peter

You have the thoughts and desires of a child's future in your very hands. I admire how you help shape their vision of their own future without interuppting their balance. I wonder what you persoanllyu take away from each experience. It must be awesome.

44x365x136 - Gwin

I call you "The Queen" because you have a royal quality about you. I love it when you have a plain face on, and no one knows if you are mad or not, and then I make you laugh. Your face lights up beautifully.

44X365X135 - Sue

When we first met, you misjudged me. Once we shared with each other, we understood. I like the relationship we have because it is honest and sincere. You are a confidante, and have supported me when needed. You inspire me more than you know.

44x365x134 - Jennifer

I find you to be an interesting blend of compassion and ego. I like the fun side you can display, but really dislike it when you openly judge others and extend a hurtful comment. Your smile and laugh has an undertone of game playing.

44x365x133 - Dana

I always saw you as the handsome, successful man who literally had it all. When your marriage ended, we spoke about our similarities in life. It was a great moment because I felt that we really connected and were on a level playing field.

44x365x132 - Edward

A nice young man who is lucky to have the family that he has to support him. You have a great sense of humor when you allow yourself to open up. I can't wait to see what inspires you to succeed as you mature.

44x365x131 - Jefferey

You have this air of confidence about you that is inspiring. I have a hard time relating to you because I feel a bit intimidated by you. You have a brilliant mind and a successful life. You are a great Dad and devoted husband.

44x365x130 - Elizabeth

A beautiful young lady who seems to have life going her way. You were born with a silver spoon in your mouth. I know growing up had its tough moments, but am glad that you could rise above it and be your own person.

44x365x129 - Lauren

My lovely niece who got married today. You have inspired me by being independent and smart. You went after one degree, began your career, then decided you wanted to "Save Lives" and make a difference to the human condition. I am proud of you!

44x365x128 - Tim

Tomorrow you join the family when you say, "I Do." I hope your kind nature and goodness will remain intact as you begin to enjoy all that life offers. I admire your strength and honesty to show how much you love my niece. Congratulations!

44x365x127 - Kathy

You married my cousin and I am so happy to have you in our wonderful family! You have this elegance about you and great karma always surrounds you. You helped the children in our community and you live in Massachusetts. Thanks for being YOU!

44x365x126 - Janet

We never talk about it, but we always seem to understand that we live in very different worlds. I accept you for where you come from, who you are, and for your successes. I wonder if you accept the same in regards to me.

44x365x125 - Andrew

I can't believe that we are related because we rarely see each other. When you were younger, you would occassionally come to our family gatherings. You have a lot of opportunities in front of you; take them and be respctful to those around you.

44x365x124 - Mr. Clemente

You were one of my best teachers when I was at an awkward time in my life. You taught my peers that everyone has something to offer, even the quiet, unpopular kids. Your example opened the eyes of so many. Thank you sooooo much.

44x365x123 - Mrs. Vitiello

My english teacher during freshman year of high school, who taught me that humor was a good thing, especially in writing. Your warm and motherly manner made me work harder. I saw you recently and got to tell you how you impacted my life.

44X365X122 - Warren

You were my middle school teacher, my high school vice principal, and now, we work together to change the lives of children through mentoring. You are there to assist me, even as an adult. Thanks for coming to Bowl For Kids sake each year!

44x365x121 - Mr. Ford

You were my high school guidance counselor, and I still remember how you laughed at my future dreams. You were supposed to encourage me to improve my life and inspire me to dream. Your grade as a high school guidance counselor was a "D-".

44x365x120 - Andrew

We broke up with our girlfriends on the same day; how odd. You were my best friend through high school. We double dated at many proms and dances, and even brought our girlfriends "parking" in the station wagon. Thank God for station wagons, huh?

44x365x119 - Eric

My college career was enhanced because you were my roommate. Put together at odd circumstances, our friendship brought both of us great memories and special times. I think we were strong as a family, but both failed by not remaining brothers throughout our lives.

44x365x118 - Regina

Going "Slut Dancing" with you and the gang was always a blast! How about those hand cuffs and the hankerchief? I remember sliding across the floor and giving you the big dip. And Patti laughed hysterically. We have had some great memories, haven't we?

44x365x117 - Jim

When you were alive, I looked at you as the ideal father, husband, and businessman. You had this energy that screamed "success." I was intimidated by you. Your sudden death brought me to tears, but also made me begin to live my life differently.

44x365x116 - Ben

You have one of "those faces." When people look at you, they say, "He's Naughty!" But then you flash that million dollar smile, or do something "wicked cute," and everyone just smiles and looks at you with love. You are still naughty! Bennie HahNah!

44x365x115 - Tanya (Mimi)

People see you with brimstone and eye of newt. I see you as someone who is serious about her position and the future livelihood of everyone around her. When you sent me flowers, I was touched by your kind gesture and your message. Thanks!

44x365x114 - June

I love to see your expression of joy for the difference you make in the lives of the children at your school. I am blessed to have your support, understanding, humor, and goodwill. I love it when you laugh because you really light up.

44x365x113 - Brenda T.

In the face of middle school drama and hijinks, you are there with a helping hand, a warm smile, and an open door. I admire your kindness. You inspire me daily to do my job better and to give back more because it matters.

44x365x112 - Monica M.

Our yearly lunches of chicken dijonnaise are incredibly yummy. You have a gift of individualism that makes the difference in the lives of so many in your community. Your energy brings people together for common, positive purposes. I admire everything that makes you....YOU!

44x365x111 - Lorraine

I love our working friendship. We have shared many laughs and you have entrusted me with your secrets. You showed me through your actions that loyalty matters. I will never lose the friendship we have together, and look forward to more laughs, don't you?

44x365x110 - Kathy

You are an incredible worker. I see how effortlessly you make things occur. You never get stressed about anything, and go with the flow with a calm and easy manner. I admire your ability to go with the flow. Thanks for all your support.

44x365x109 - Aunt Connie

Happy Birthday! I fondly remember the "snow Horse" Debbie and I made. You dressed up in a long coat, sun glasses, and lots of drama. You posed for photos. As you hugged the horse, it fell apart and you tumbled to the ground. Hysterical!

44X365X108 - Gail

A high school friend who was involved in a lot of activities. When we met up again in college, we became social friends. You loved your C&C, and I liked the way your nose flaired when you laughed. You had great personality and wit.

44x365x107 - Larry

You were one of my favorite teachers. You were humorous and fun and you taught me a lot. Years later, I am still doing presentations in front of you, and you tell everyone I was a LHS student who made the best castle ever.

44x365x106 - Kiani

You are full of potential, but waste your time not being "Real." I think with life experience, you could be an incredible person, but you have to stop being judgmental. There is more than being book smart. Help others shine and you will shine.

44x365x105 - Ryan

You could have one of the nicest relationships in your life, but for some reason you are looking for what you cannot have easily. You are young and need to mature. You're learning patience and building character. Let's hope you don't become a character.

44x365x104 - Kim

You have incredible blue eyes in that pool picture. I think you're looking for the missing items life robbed you of, but to get what you want, you could hurt people without realizing it's true and lasting impact. Keep your strengths and friends close.

44x365x103 - Shelby

In a word, "Smencils." You have a great personality and a hysterical sense of humor. I want you to become everything you can be, which could be phenominal! I hope you finally read the book. I am still waiting for my thank you card!

44x365x102 - Roger

I knew you professionally before we met and became friends. You were a nicer person than I thought you'd be. You helped when I needed someone to go on a road trip. I had disappointment on that trip and you were gracious in response.

44x365x101 - Jason

Meeting you was intriguing due to the deeper issues within me. You showed me that the road was long, but not as scary as I had once thought. I began to admire where you are in your life. But are you truly happy now?

44x365x100 - Katie

A fanatically crazy Tolkein reader. You impressed me with your knowledge and writing in the Tolkein language within the stories. When I met you, I instantly became "Uncle Ron," and whenever I see you now, you express that nice smile and always speak kindly.

44x365x99 - Christian

I recently met you and we began to work on some great "thinking" together, but you gave up. It is too bad because you have so much potential, but you are afraid to succeed, and only search for things that are merely safe. LIVE!

44x365x98 - Helen

On this remembrance day, I recall the horror we faced 7 years ago today. To this day, I can not even think of flying without that same panicked feeling. I can't even talk about it. We share a love because of this tragedy. Forever.

44x365x97 - Bryan

Happy Birthday! I see a lot of kindness in you, which gives me hope for your generation. You collect PEZ, which makes me proud. I like your good attitude even when the world is against you. You are more incredible than you even realize!

44x365x96 - Ryan

You were brought into the world and I saw the joy you brought to so many. You were betrayed. I can never forget the strength you showed in your time of need. You will be stronger, but I felt sad you had to endure.

44x365x95 - Andrew

You are someone I hardly knew, but you took the heart of my friend. You called me on New Year's Eve as a prank, but then I found out you were "ringing in" the New Year with style. You were hysterically descriptive, how embarrassing.

44x365x94 - Susie

I remember how you decorated my stairway and bedroom with balloons, and how you scared me with Ghostbusters cereal. We shared "ronnie burgers," "circle electric," and "black gloves." We shut our eyes as we slut danced. Remember "Baby I'm a Star" and "Careless Whisper."

44x365x93 - Annie

I think you are an incredible person with much love to give. I just wish you were not as suffocating as you are. It holds you back from so much love and success. I see such kindness, love and generosity in you! You're Tops!!!

44x365x92 - Pat

Your first teaching job was my 4th Grade Class at Farwell. I remember thinking how cute you were. My first teacher crush. You were kind, gentle, and compassionate as a teacher. I really felt that you cared that I did well in school.

44X365X91 - Rita

I loved going over to visit your kids because we'd talk about "Life" at your kitchen table. You had so much to offer for advice and had the best laugh. I wonder if you knew how much of an inspiration you were to me.

44x365x90 - William

You were one of the oldest kids at the Shank Street bus stop. You were tall and lankey, but I admired the way you expressed your confidence. Funny how one day I would have your son as a volunteer in my program. Good Job!

44x365x89 - Diane B.

You were my teacher long ago! I thought you were the "coolest" teacher ever. You had a knack of acting like a friend to your students, which made them learn more. You taught me about being very respectful no matter what made people different.

44x365x88 - Monica

When you were initiated into "the club," you laughed so hard! You were thrilled to see Julie's basement walls open like doors. Your beautiful blue eyes got big and wide. Remember how much fun we had in our own country club in that basement?

44x365x87 - Carol

I like you as a person, but you are not well suited for the family. Don't you realize that if you embrace this family, they will embrace you back with a love that you have never felt? You will figure it out or not.

44x365x86 - Austin

Brand new to the family, you came into the quiet world with promise. Now all you do is eat, sleep, and cry. You cry A LOT, but your family holds you close and loves you through it all. You are lucky; we are lucky.

44x365x85 - Hannah

When you were born, you became a ray of sunshine for many in the family. You are loved so much and the world is at your feet with potential, opportunity, and everlasting love. There is no finer gift than the laughter of a child.

44x365x84 - Brent

You are a quiet man, who I think has some unresolved issues within. I think you have the potential to becoming a great man in all facets of your life, but you do not smile as much as you should. Open up and LIVE!

44x365x83 - Carolyn

A Real "Sweetie!" My God Child who has an incredible sense of humor, is a real hard worker, and has a big heart. She is a phenominal mother and I love the woman she has become. I enjoy watching her life develop with success.

44x365x82 - Helen

You are an important part of my family. I love your small town feeling. I remember saying the word "sex" around you and seeing your face get all red in embarrassment. I have been part of your successes and am glad I know you.

44x365x81 - Albert

You were my grandfather's friend, and I used to love to hear you laugh. You were one of the nicest people I knew growing up because you taught me respect despite physical appearance. Who would know that I would one day work with Rose!

44x365x80 - Pat

A childhood friend that I met at the bus stop. You were very shy, but when you actually laughed, it lit up your whole face. I remember when you began smoking and it made you look so unattractive. Have you now kicked the habit?

44x365x79 - Albert "Big Al"

You made me feel like family. I celebrated you as postmaster, a senior olympian, and a friend. As your wife was passing, you left us alone and said, "Friends need time to part ways." The next day, you asked me to perform the eulogy.

44x365x78 - Lucille "Mom-Z"

I never thought I would get close to the mother of a friend. We formed our own friendship bond and shared sooooo many laughs. Your death gave me the honor of my very first eulogy. I'm so glad we got to formally say goodbye.

44x365x77 - Wendy

We were in classes together in high school. You were blonde haired, blue eyed and popular. We were friends and talked and laughed. When we had to pick partners, until you called me "Steve." You really had no idea what my name was. Wow.

44x365x76 - Ted

I remember being your co-pilot when we would go check on "things" to make sure you were being respected. And of course keeping "mum" on those infamous "Chamber Meetings." Remember, "Ronbo came, Ronbo saw, Ronbo kicked ass!" We were good mutual friends, weren't we?

44x365x75 - Perri-Ann

A former co-worker, then boss. Many laughs. I remember how kind you were to me when my grandfather died. I kept your many secrets back then (and still do even though we do not see each other often now). Have you cleaned the attic?

44x365x74 - Lisa O.

I was having my haircut and heard you laughing with your client. I switched to you because of your good sense of humor and your special ability to be "Real." I always leave your chair smiling. You are definitely a "cut" above the rest!

44x365x73 - Dorothy "Dot"

You were my mother's secretary for years. When I would call the office, you would always treat me kindly and express interest in my life. Thanks for laughing at my jokes and comments. I always admire how beautiful of a person you truly are.

44x365x72 - Amber Waves of Grain

You hurt your ankle sweeping the forest. You have a crazy love for "Mater," and still became my Amber Waves of Grain. You must be giddy knowing you live close to the PEZ USA Factory. You are a very responsible and mature young lady.

44x365x71 - Brenda

I helped you run for SFS national office. We created an incredible brochure and represented you extremely well. I came to respect your professionalism, strength, and independence as a woman who could make a difference. When you husband died, so did your spirit. Sad.

44x365x70 - William

You were the most athletic and popular student in class. You had looks, personality, charisma. It hid your weaknesses. I used to envy you and wished to be like you, but now, as an adult, I wish you were a lot more like me.

44x365x69 - Lisa

You were older than I was, but we hung around in the old neighborhood. You always seemed to have great relationships, and I thought you must have been popular. You are now living down south, and you are still married and in love. Wow!

44x365x68 - Megan

You are a beautiful woman inside and out. OK, except for the photos I saw of you hugging a blown up penis at Jessica's bridal shower! You are always warm and friendly. Lots of laughs surround you wherever you go. Alex thinks you're cool!

44x365x67 - Lynda

I was very close to you, and always thought we were friends. I babysat your children, and we spent time a lot of time talking about things. When you moved, I never heard from you again. I wonder if you miss us at all.

44x365x66 - Chris

Dynamite comes in small packages. I remember how drunk you were that night in college. I had to tell you who you slept with the night before. I have pictures of that next morning that still makes me laugh out loud! I miss you.

44x365x65 - Mikey

The one who got picked on all the time and loved the attention it brought. He signed a "Gentleman's Agreement" that was foolish. In retrospect, I realize that you were probably mistreated and made fun of by everyone you met. You survived this way.

44x365x64 - Eric

You were one strange person, but your laughter was so infectious. Everyone would laugh, even if they did not want to. I think of your laugh today and it still makes me laugh. I wonder what ever became of you. Always a good time.

44x365x63 - Craig

You were Eric's roommate and what a strange pair you two were. I recall all the silliness that came out of your room, and I wonder if you ever really graduated. It seemed like all you did was goof off, and make people laugh.

44x365x62 - Georgette

You wanted to be "something" in life, but did not feel like you had ever arrived. You had humor, conversation, and heart. You worked too hard for something that you already had. I hope heaven proved to you that you always were an angel.

44x365x61 - Charles

A kind, older man, that lived a life of fun, but paid the price by having illness. You talk from your throat, and conversing was not easy. I admired your ability to talk of your pain, but still be full of humor and life.

44x365x60 - Celeste

I recall the "Music is my Life" Garfield poster that I gave you. You were popular, talented, and beautiful. I enjoyed the time we spent together, and wish we had remained close. You have always lived life on your terms, which I greatly admire.

44x365x59 - Katherine

We first met at a meeting. I sat next to you because you had such good karma. By the end of the meeting we were friends and you offered me any assistance. I called upon you only once and you showed up. Thank You.

44x365x58 - Jessica

I wish you had not been so intimidated by my work ethic. I enjoyed being with you because you brought forth such a great sense of humor. You are a good woman, a great mother, and a positive person. You will always do well.

44x365x57 - Wayne

When your wife introduced me to you, I knew we would get along well. We had a lot of laughs in the short time we became acquainted. You are a top-level businessman, who still remembers his roots, and cares for his family. "MY WP."

44x365x56 - Debbie

When we first met, you helped me make a decision to change my life's path. I was openly honest, and as I walked away, you said, "And if you don't make this decision, that is fine, but don't go back to the law firm."

44x365x55 - Michele

A wonderful woman who seems to adore the work ethic and attitude of my nephew. She is charming, and nice, and I wish they didn't live so far away. I think she would enjoy our family's embrace as we welcome her to the family.

44x365x54 - Tom

Now a California Dreamer. You are seeking a rich life and success on your own terms. I think you will make it, because you are a good person and a hard worker, but it comes at a cost of not seeing your family much.

44x365x53 - Patricia

A fine woman who married one of my best friends. You have put up with a lot being a loving wife and your own individual. I admire your strength and your weaknesses because they are what keeps your relationship together. You will live long.

44x365x52 - Clem

A special person who taught me that outer macho-ism is not always the way it is "inside." We talked for hours about complexities of life, and supported each other ALWAYS. We experienced an incredible friendship that has slowed from time, but not of memory.

44x365x51 - Gail

A sweet and gorgeous woman who liked her C&C. In high school, I thought you weren't approachable. In college, we became close, and I realized you were as fragile as anybody else. You made me realize a lot about what being popular REALLY meant.

44x365x50 - JoAnn

My stalker. Everyone treated you differently because you were "special." I tried to get you to understand what you were doing was wrong. I wanted to be left alone, and you scared me deeply. I went to the Police and thankfully the letters stopped.

44x365x49 - Dawn

You were all smiles. A short, dark-skinned woman who had a big, warm & Fuzzy personality. You were not afraid to say anything to anyone, and had the fast wit to respond to anyone who challenged you. I loved just watching you operate.

44x365x48 - Shirley

I loved your sense of humor and your ability to deal with people. I always thought you were a hot ticket for an older gal. Little did I know our paths would cross again. We spoke, laughed, and it was like no time passed.

44x365x47 - Bob

A Roley Poley, jolly good fellow. You had the extreme gift or gab and charisma. Everyone liked you, but yet you could not make the business fly right. Your whole family was involved, and it brought you closer, but you eventually lost the business.

44x365x46 - Cindy

You lived on the other side of "the wall" at work. I always thought that was strange, yet convenient. You had a great smile and laugh, which hid your inner demons. I always wondered if you worked hard to get respect from your father.

44x365x45 - Julie

My life-long friend. Everyone thought we would grow up and marry. You're wild; you lived life spontaneously. I remember truth or dare, hide and seek, your pool, marshmallow frosted cakes, campbells chicken noodle soup, and you running in your driveway yelling, "I'm a Bitch!

44x365x44 - Louise

A Country girl who could frost a cake and make gorgeous looking icing roses very quickly. You and I had a lot of laughs as we worked. I felt respected by you and that made me grow by leaps and bounds. Thank you Louise!

44x365x43 - Madeline

You owned a bakery, sold it, then owned it again. Your reputation "A Bitch!" I befriended you and helped you through a really tough time. I got no thanks. I was appalled when you served Mrs. Smith's as your own pies. I then left.

44x365x42 - Georgette

A grandmother type; what a spit fire. I liked the way you gave attitude to customers and put them in their place; always with a smile. They always returned to the store, too! I hope I have that talent when I am a grandfather!

44x365x41 - Mary

You were the first large woman I had ever met. You were taunted and teased for your weight. You endured so much personal pain. You made radical changes, lost your weight, and yet people still teased you. I still feel the pain you endured.

44x365x40 - Toby

First we worked together making donuts. I aspired to have what you had at that time. As the world turns, I later find you divorced. I now see you weekly due to my current job. You never changed, but life did. A Great Teacher.

44x365x39 - Bruce

I jumped through hoops for you because I was young and foolish. You made more money because of my good work ethic, and yet you abused me. I accepted your apology years after the company closed because it was the right thing to do.

44x365x38 - Eric

I knew you when you were a toddler. You were the only child and appeared to have it all. You never had real friends, and I wonder how you are doing now. I hope you managed to break free and become your own man.

44x365x37 - Bill

You were one of my first bosses. I had fun at work, but you are slick and underhanded. On the surface you appear kind and a bit dim-witted, but you use people to gain your success. Your ancestors must have been actual slave owners.

44x365x36 - Pat

You worked tirelessly to operate a business and keep your family happy. Even when you were ill, you continued on. I admired you as a youth, but now, I realize you had choices and never exercised them. Today, you are in the same place

44x365x35 - Michele

I liked you so much in the beginning, but when you accused me of something I did NOT do, it disappointed me. I understand you have become successful, but I wonder how many people you stepped on to get there. Do you sleep soundly?

44x365x34 - Dale

You were so kind for a man who had to collect money from people and companies. I think your life was rather difficult at times, but you were always helpful to everyone around you. What saved you was your gift of gab and laughter.

44x365x33 - Paul

The Prince of the Pager Palace. We laughed until we pissed our pants about Patty from the Pail & Puddle, who had a Pager Problem. You were always such a helpful person, always in the same mood, but always ready with the right answer.

44x365x32 - Richard

King of the Alpha Center. You have one of those special laughs. You make people laugh because your whole body laughs at once. You are such a great person. I could not believe how far I traveled in the woods to attend your wedding.

44x365x31 - Marc

The amazing money man. You seemed to guide the company financials with ease. I was so impressed as a new employee. But when I saw you meddle into lives that you had no business being in, I quickly realized what a snake you were.

44x365x30 - Jen

You made me dress as a whoopie pie on "Senior Slave Day." I had to carry around a little basket and give our the cake treats. I was humiliated, but I did it with personality and good humor. I hated you for that; BITCH!!

44x365x29 - Kenny

As teenagers, we spoke about things we never spoke to anyone about. When you confided in me, my reaction offended you in some way. The next day, you had done an overnight move. You were gone. I still live with wonder all these years.

44x365x28 - Lucretia

A Real Beauty. Great smile, great personality, and a hard worker. I enjoyed working with you because I could see what a great force you were. You seemed to have it all. I hope you still do. I would imagine you only get better.

44x365x27 - Gretchen

You were my supervisor, and we shared a cubicle. We both had a love of Pretzels, and when I hung them all over your push pin board, we laughed for days as you slowly ate them off the pins. I miss your great laugh.

44x365x26 - Paul

You were the silliest salesman I ever knew. You have a unique wild side that made everyone nervous, but yet they would laugh. You were French, approachable, fun, but yet still considered weird. I like your spirit. You dared to be you! Go Paul!

44x365x25 - Abby

A beautiful woman who had a real zest for life and living. You had the devoted husband, the nice family, the home with the desired white picket fence. You had it all. Too bad you gave it all up for a bottle of alcohol.

44x365x24 - Joan

You made the best marshmallow frosted cake EVER! You always had Campbell's Chicken Noodle Soup for me in your cupboard. I always felt at home with your family. You allowed me to swim in your pool anytime. Thank you for making me feel loved.

44x365x23 - Paul

The first attorney I ever knew personally. You lived in a grand house where the walls were doors. You had a great pool and an awesome little house poolside. When you died, it brought together a lot of the old neighborhood. You lived well.

44x365x22 - Peg

A great smile and laugh. You took good care of my brother. You gave me a PEZ "just because," and and you didn't care if I had it or not, you did it "just because." You are in the special section of the library.

44x365x21 - Ryann

I thought you would be different somehow, but in the end, you followed like the others before you. I always pegged you for a leader; not a follower. What a disappointment. If you ever decide to reach out, there will be no turning back.

44x365x20 - Trace

A quiet young man that stole the heart of my niece. Your personality blends well with the enthusiasm and emotions of Val. You have great karma and will be a wonderful Daddy. I wish you the true feeling of success. Welcome to the family.

44x365x19 - Paul

I enjoyed watching you interact with family; you acted like you never had family moments. I wondered if you ever did. Your pumpkin carving days are over, my friend, but it is never too late to have the family you want. Make it happen.

44x365x18 - Glenn

Before you deserted the family, I saw such a great kid. Had a great smile. Had Looks. Had opportunity. Do you ever miss us? Worry about us? I think of you at every family gathering and wonder if you were doing the same. Well?

44x365x17 - Eugene

The perfect driveway. The perfectly pruned bushes. You had fancy friends with big fancy expensive cars. I was intimidated by your perfection and seeming wealth. Your garage was turned into a livingroom and I always wanted a room like that when I grew up.

44x365x16 - Eleanor

I wanted to be friends with your son because he was older. You would give me rides to school since you were a local teacher. I learned how to make chocolates from you. I realize now that you were my friend instead of Dan.

44x365x15 - Happy

Talk about constant love and companionship. I know you belonged to Debbie, but you shared your love. You were huge! You pushed me out of bed many times, but it showed how much you wanted to be with me. I'm allergic to dogs now!

44x365x14 - Kitty

You were very independent, but loving. All I had to do was rub my fingers together gently and you would come. Looking for love and attention. Sorry your name was "Kitty." Our family should have been more creative than that! It fit, I guess.

44x365x13 - Cecille

You were always my "Little Woman." We did not know each other long enough before you left this earth, but I loved making you laugh, and will always remember your face with a smile upon it. I think you were Debbie's angel. Thank You.

44x365x12 - George

When I was younger, I looked up to you as someone who was independent and on the go. Always going to a new place, to do a grand thing. Now I realize that you were not honest with friendships, and you were simply lonely.

44x365x11 - Kelsie

Fiery red spirit with a quiet and shy exterior. I missed seeing you after the divorce, but was thrilled to see you at that one Bowl For Kids Sake that you joined the family. I had to work and could not share that moment.

44x365x10 - Mrs. Willits

Your lips weren't normal, so you formed them with lipstick. You were understanding when I fell asleep in class. You explained I was helping take care of a baby at home. How did you know? I attended your funeral. I can still conjugate "amo."

44x365x9 - Lorraine

No one could carry a bat around the neighborhood like you! "Mark, Denny, Carol, Get in the house!" You scared me growing up. When you moved, I often wondered how you were. I felt sad for you many times, but have no idea why.

44x365x8 - Valerie

When you joined our family, it sparked so much love. It was the first time I saw my father love a baby. I remember you with Micky Mouse ears. You are blessed with gifts to help others succeed. You're emotional, wonderful, and you're ours!

44x365x7 - Tom

A Leader. You were the first to join our family through marriage. I was very young and I grew up thinking of you as a real brother. You didn't disappoint me. You are a great role model as anyone can look up to you.

44x365x6 - Wanda

A good sister is like a nice quilt. She ages with you, yet never loses her warmth. A support at one of the worst times in my life. She gave me a washer and dryer for my "new life." She is an incredible mother.

44x365x5 - Alexandra

Her hair up in a pony tail, her favorite dress tied with a bow. Her love of make-up and fashion, my love for her just grows. She has a mix of current innocence and a dash of some old souls. I love my daughter.

44x365x4 - Justin

100% Talent. Can learn and do anything with passion and practice. Outwardly strong and confident; inside he's afraid of success. Surprise Cones, Boys Night Out, Artist, Entertainer. Quick to learn, slow at reality. I love him for all his flaws and strengths. My son.

44x365x3 - Diane

6 years dating; love. I fell in love with you all over again on our honeymoon. You gave me two children and through them I experience hope. I loved you; we disappointed each other. The saying is correct, Honeymoons don't last forever. Friendship. Failure

44x365x2 - William

A work-a-holic and my very first male role model. You never judged others on their incomes. The dog farted. Mt. Blue Camping. You loved and hated my beard-shaving mail. A true artist. You died too young and missed seeing my life. Or did you?

44x365x1 - Jeanne

Life began with loving your face and your voice. The love you bestow on me makes me feel peaceful. You have enabled me to do the impossible; daily. There is something warm and comforting about being your "baby." I am lucky; I love you.

What is x365?

I started a separate blog for this new project that I want to embark on. "X365" is a year long project where you write a daily vignette about a person who has impressed your life in some way. To check out how it all began, go to x 365 and maybe you will want to begin your own list.

A special thanks to Maine-ly Megin for the idea. Ok, well, Rob is the one who really told me about it, but I learned the rest of the details of this project from Megin. Her entries each day are really thought provoking, even though I know none of the people who have touched her life.


Here is the way mine is going to work. I am going to write 44 words (my age).... for 365 days...and number each entry. So my entries will look like this: 44x365x1 then 44x365x2 and then 44x365x3 Now I think you get the idea.

I am doing this project because I think it will be interesting to see all the people that I feel have touched my life over the course of my life. A Year of a Life. Interesting isn't it? Stay tuned if you want.